Tammi Pickle, Elite Matchmaker and Vice President of an elite dating agency, talks about dating in her latest article in Fete Lifestyle Magazine

Signs the Person You're Dating Is Not Going To Move Forward 

You shouldn’t spend your time, energy and emotions with someone who isn’t serious. Even worse, don’t allow them to use you for their own devious interests. Our matchmakers at Elite Connections review so many singles and they see the mistakes they make. Everyone should find  not only a valuable partner, but a person that admires them and is honorable. You should find a person that loves and cares about you. With a trained eye, it's easy to spot whether you are on the right path, and if you take a step back and reassess you can focus and see if they are truly someone that will make your life better. Are they someone who can barely reciprocate and has a slight interest?  Watch for the signs to look for when engaging with someone new on a romantic relationship, or even at a friendship level. 

1. Do they only contact you when it’s convenient for them? Elite matchmakers say that if they only text or call you late in the evening, you should understand they are only reaching out because it's convenient for them.  They certainly could have been busy during the day but couldn’t take the time to pause for a couple minutes to say hello at a decent hour.  Don’t pick up late, unless you want to say goodnight and sleep well.  If they call to come see you late, that’s not a good idea and disrespectful.  I can assure you their interests are not focused on you. They are simply calling to see if you will let them come over  late at night, because, it was convenient for them, or they want something from you, or both. 

2. Do they always contact you for help? If someone cares about you they will call to talk about your day, an event or place they want to take you to. It won’t be always a call about something they need or want from you.  Tammi Pickle says, “Don’t waste your time with someone that constantly wants something from you.”

3. They aren’t talking about the future after six months of dating.  They should be wanting you to meet their friends and asking you to go on trips or to events. After a year you should have met their family and possibly discuss moving in together.   At least spending part of your time at each other’s homes. After 2-3 years, things should be getting more serious. Talking about getting married, buying a home, or getting engaged. The person you’re in love with can’t read your mind. So if you’re not happy with the progression of your relationship, let them know.  If things don’t change, move on. 

4. They are up and down. They want to see you everyday then disappear. One day they are excited about seeing you and then they don’t call for a week.   This is a sign that you are not that important to them.  Getting to know someone in the very beginning of a relationship might have these tendencies, because there really isn’t an obligation to call you all the time, or a commitment to seeing you regularly. If you’ve been seeing each other for several months and this behavior continues, it's time to discuss  what their intentions are. You simply can’t allow people to come into your life and not treat you well. If you let  someone come and go when they please, you’ll end up unhappy.

A relationship will naturally evolve into many days of the week together at a reasonable hour of the day.  Having  breakfast, lunch, or dinner, and spending hours together. Not seeing each other for long stretches of time, is not acceptable if you’re looking for a solid relationship. Of course  relatives, jobs and life takes up our time. But if the person is truly interested in you, they will give you the time you need. Some people are happy with a couple texts in the day and seeing each other once every week ot two. Many people need a lot more to be happy. Be totally honest with yourself and the person you love.  You need to make sure that you are both in the same mindset. If they don’t seem to want to commit to you, or want to spend time together without long breaks in between, and you want more… Then they are not the one for you.  Learn to move on without spending too much of your life trying to change someone.  Don’t end up  bitter and sad. Your journey is what matters, along with your happiness. 

5. They are not over their Ex. If their conversation keeps ending up in the past and their  past relationships.  This is a big red flag. If the person you’ve been dating for over three months continues talking about their ex, you’re probably wasting your time.  The person you’re dating should be talking to you about good times in their life, things they want to do with you and asking you questions about your past. If you find yourself mentioning your ex, simply find more uplifting things to discuss. Read the full article… https://joom.ag/uPWd/p44

The matchmakers at Elite Connections review each client, and you can see why quality singles have been joining with Tammi Pickle and their staff for over 28 years. This elite dating agency has amazing clients that are serious about finding the right person. Contact the elite matchmakers and Tammi Pickle at Elite Connections International 800-923-4200 info@eliteconnections.com www.eliteconnections.com

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