5 Reasons Your Lover Left By Elite Matchmaking Expert, Sherri Murphy

Everyone is reeling when someone they thought they were in love with leaves. They want to know what they did wrong after a breakup. It’s heartbreaking when you thought things were going so well and then all of a sudden it’s over. Everyone wonders what they could have done wrong. We want to simplify the reasons it possibly could have happened. At Elite Connections we hear complaints from singles who’s lover left them abruptly and they have no idea why. Many times it’s simply that they just don’t have enough in common to keep the relationship going.

On a recent ski trip my husband and I ended up in a gondola with a beautiful woman talking to her boyfriend. She was extremely upset because he was not spending the day with her. He was off enjoying the beautiful day on his snowboard. She didn’t like to ski and didn’t want to learn. So instead she drank way too much and called him to complain.

When her boyfriend leaves her it will be because of four things: she drinks too much, she has a foul mouth, she complains all the time and they don’t enjoy the same pastimes. It could be that he mets a nicer woman that shares his passion for skiing or snowboarding.

As the founder and elite matchmaker at Elite Connections I’ve reviewed many singles and the reasons they left their partners. It usually comes down to, they simply shouldn’t have been together. Opposites attract but you need common morals, goals and interests to stay together.

If you love the outdoors, why get involved with someone who’s past times are watching TV and shopping?

Stop blaming the other person, look inside and work to improve yourself, before dating again.

1. Do your drink too much? Get help if you do. Become a healthier person.
2. Be fun. Do you have a hobby or passion? Learn to do something new, interesting and fun. Take up a sport, take art classes, join an investment group, rescue a dog or cat. Become a more interesting person.
3. Do you complain a lot? No one wants to be with someone that constantly talks about everything that’s gone wrong in their life or even that day. Look for the good things in life and talk about that. Get a counselor to discuss your problems. Of course we all discuss problems in a relationship but you can’t be negative all the time.
4. Be appreciative. If your partner brings you dinner at home, say thank you. If they invite you on a trip and do something you can’t participate in, explore the city and entertain yourself. Then say thank you for the vacation. People want to be appreciated.
5. Don’t be boring. Talking about your job, how much money you make and your last tennis game can be boring after time. Read, go outside, meet new people, ask questions and listen. At Elite Connections complaints we hear are often are about couples not having enough to talk about.

The elite matchmaking team at Elite Connections review each client they work with. That’s why quality singles have been joining with them over 28 years. This elite matchmaking team work with clients that are serious about finding the right person. Contact Sherri Murphy and the elite matchmaking team - Elite Connections International 800-923-4200

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